R & J will sit anywhere on me, give me kisses, "groom me" and will step up and get on my hands even in their cages but for some reason i can't pet them they seem scared of me when i try to. They only seem scared of my hands when i try to pet them and none other time I don't really understand it. Am I doing something to make them scared or are they more of "We'll let ya love us on my our own terms and we don't like being petted"?