I have a dilemma to solve: I am planning to join the US Navy, but what I plan on doing requires me to stay for at least 5 years. I will be allowed vacation days, of course, but to be honest I am extremely nervous about leaving my lovie Pixel for so long, the longest I've ever gone without seeing him is 2 months (during summer vacation, I live 2 states away with my dad and his family, I can't bring Pixel due to their animals and the stress of travel.) My mother and stepfather have already stated that they'd take care of him while I was gone until he passes, but then I'd feel horrible for not being around for that. I have had Pixel since he was 8 months old (he is going to be 7 this May).
It may sound stupid, but Pixel is the deciding factor as to whether I go through with joining.