Re: A few questions before getting a Lovebird...
Hi,
I just answered your other post on Petstore birds, and am glad to see that you are looking for a breeder. Let us know where you are exactly, and maybe we can recommend one to you.
Some breeders do DNA sex, most if you request it. There is a fee, but you would have to pay to have that done yourself, so better to let them do it, and then you know exactly what sex you are getting.
I would recommend a male for a first time bird owner. Hens are wonderful pets also, but you would have eggs to deal with, and you might want a little more experience before jumping into that. It's not a huge deal, but it is a little extra.
You don't necessarily need a pair. As long as you can spend at least 1-2 hours per day with your birds(more if possible) then that will keep a bond with your bird. Everyday interaction is key is taming. You are looking for quality more so than quanity time.
Some lovies do carry a good bite. The thing to keep in mind is they are birds, biting is their defense, and sometimes they bite for a reason. Sometimes they are trying to tell you something, I'm scared, I don't like that, I want to go eat, I need a drink, etc.... Sometimes they are just tired, and ready to go back to their cage. The way to avoid a bite it to get to know your birds body language, and respect it. You will learn body stance and actions of your bird by getting a nip or two, and then you will learn to avoid a bite, and train them not to bite. Still, you will get an occasional nip. It's not personal, it's just part of having a bird
Let us know if we can help locate a breeder, and if you have more questions. I'm sure you will get more responses. The more you ask, the more you know, the better prepared you'll be
"Be as a bird perched on a frail branch that she feels bending beneath
her, still she sings away all the same, knowing she has wings."
-Victor Hugo
Lori